Thursday 17 November 2022

Healing the Angry Brain by Ronald T. Potter-Efron - A Book Review

 Healing the Angry Brain by  Ronald T. Potter-Efron - A Book Review.

 
It happens so many times in our lives that we are deeply contemplating on a subject that is bothering us and from somewhere, out pops up a friend, or an acquaintance who hands you a book that deals identically with the subject you were thinking about.
 
This is exactly that happened to me before I read this mind boggling book - “Healing the Angry Brain" by  Ronald T. Potter-Efron. Instantly it connected with the phase I was going through and like an experienced surgeon, performing an operation on a serious patient, takes him out of danger and puts him back on a safe and sound path to recovery. It was not that I was angry myself, but I was reviewing this same topic not only with respect to my nature, but in context to people who had approached me with the same issues.

What I want to say about this Book is so well expressed here in these words by Steven Stosny when he says and I quote .....

“Healing the Angry Brain is as thorough a work on the neurobiology of anger as you will find anywhere. In addition to a comprehensive description of the biological and psychological functions of anger, it gives lots of practical advice on regulating anger in the context of a full and healthy emotional life.” 
— Steven Stosny.
 
Lou Cozolino, professor of psychology at Pepperdine
University also says - “Psychotherapists are always asking neuroscientists, How does understanding the brain help me to help my clients?. In Healing the Angry Brain, Ronald Potter-Efron provides an answer. Through a combination of clinical expertise and clear scientific information, he guides the reader to a better understanding of anger while providing a roadmap to relational and inner peace.”
 
 What made me write this review to his book was the way in which the author, spells out each phase of the process of a person getting angry and connects it with the sociological, psychological and medical angles to this whole process.
 
In a step by step process spread out in the chapters that follow, he explains the meaning, how to understand each stage, relating to that stage, and then applying the steps in each stage to come to a solution to your problem of getting angry.
 
The way in which he has clearly explained the Six stages of emotional processing of * Activation * Modulation * Preparation * Action * Feedback *  and Deactivation* - and their subsequent advantages and disadvantages of good and bad handling of these stages is exemplary. 
 
While the book deals with the actual process of emotional processing, more clearly of Anger in this Book, he also explains the medical part of each action, with respect to the parts of the brain, what and where each action originates and ends, and the sequence of each procedure. 
 
It is like a person holding your hand and taking you all across from the point of origin of your problem, to the light at the end of the dark tunnel where you see the solution. 
 
He supports them with examples as well as references from other experts in this field, researchers and medical journals where the facts are authenticated to precision. 
 
I had been dealing with many cases of parents coming to me with cases of their children whose anger and emotions they are not able to control, thereby causing distress and anxiety in the whole family. I had always been applying the same techniques, but this book authenticated and supported almost every step I was following, which instilled more confidence in me; that what I was following was correct. In fact it added new dimensions of ways of attending to these situations. 
 
I would not dissect the whole book for you here as it will take away the surprise and astonishment you will experience when you read it. Start with a totally neutral view to reading this amazing book, take it chapter by chapter and as he says himself - "Each chapter in this book will help you take this journey toward a calmer brain."
 
I am sure that your experience after reading this book will open new avenues towards ways in which you can deal with emotions as a whole. 
 
Do record your feedback through your comments, ideas, and suggestions on your own views on reading this book and how it has or will affect your own handling of similar situations of processing emotions. 
 
HAPPY READING!

Tuesday 15 November 2022

Notable Works of Dale Carnegie

 Notable Works of Dale Carnegie

  There are so many wonderful Books written by Dale Carnegie, however I will list out some of them here and also you will have the opportunity to read a little about them as well. To make it easier for the reader I have also linked the Images and Tittles of the Books to the best sources available so it will be easier for you all to make the best of this opportunity. so read on!


How to Win Friends and Influence People is one of the first best-selling self-help books ever published. Written by Dale Carnegie and first published in 1936, it has sold 15 million copies world-wide.
Published: October 1936
Author: Dale Carnegie
Original language: English
Genres: Self-help, Non-fiction
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How to Stop Worrying and Start Living is a self-help book by Dale Carnegie. It was first printed in Great Britain in 1948 by Richard Clay, Ltd., Bungay Suffolk.

Learn how to break the worry habit -- Now and forever! 

With Dale Carnegie's timeless advice in hand, more than six million people have learned how to eliminate debilitating fear and worry from their lives and to embrace a worry-free future. In this classic work, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living, Carnegie offers a set of practical formulas that you can put to work today. It is a book packed with lessons that will last a lifetime and make that lifetime happier!

DISCOVER HOW TO:
  • Eliminate fifty percent of business worries immediately
  • Reduce financial worries
  • Avoid fatigue -- and keep looking young
  • Add one hour a day to your waking life
  • Find yourself and be yourself -- remember there is no one else on earth like you!
Fascinating to read and easy to apply, How to Stop Worrying and Start Living deals with fundamental emotions and life-changing ideas. There's no need to live with worry and anxiety that keep you from enjoying a full, active life!
 Published:1948
Author:Dale Carnegie
Genres:Self-help, Non-fiction, Psychology
  
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 Dale Carnegie’s books have sold 20 million copies. This volume gathers two of the unrivaled guru of motivational writing’s best guides in one.

Dale Carnegie’s motivational and practical teachings are as sound today as when they were first written. Bestsellers for more than 60 years, How to Win Friends & Influence People and How to Stop Worrying & Start Living, have taught millions how to achieve the pinnacle of personal and professional success. They’re now together in one must-have volume. How to Win Friends reveals fundamental techniques for handling people, six ways to make others like you, tricks for becoming a better speaker, and how to be a leader. In How to Stop Worrying, Carnegie offers proven formulas for eliminating 50 percent of your business concerns immediately, suggestions for lessening financial fears, ideas for avoiding emotional upset, and much more. It’s the key to exchanging self-consciousness for self-confidence.

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 The Dale Carnegie Training center also has some great books dedicated to the legacy of Dale Carnegie. 


  PUT THESE FIVE ESSENTIAL SKILLS TO WORK AND BEGIN YOUR TRANSFORMATION!

Have you ever walked away from a conversation full of doubts and insecurities? Do you feel as if you've lost a little ground after every staff meeting? Most of us are either too passive or too aggressive in our business life, and we end up never getting the support, recognition, or respect we desire. 

The business leaders and trainers from Dale Carnegie Training have discovered that applying appropriate assertiveness to all your interactions is the most effective approach to creating a successful career. The 5 Essential People Skills will help you be the most positively commanding, prosperous, and inspired professional you can be. 

You will learn how to:
Relate to the seven major personality types
Live up to your fullest potential while achieving personal success
Create a cutting-edge business environment that delivers innovation and results 
Use Carnegie's powerhouse five-part template for articulate communications that grow business
Resolve any conflict or misunderstanding by applying a handful of proven principles
Once you master these powerful skills, you will be well on your way to a new level of professional and personal achievement.

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With over a dozen books in circulations and more from the Dale Carnegie Training Centre, you have a lot of catching up to do. I will create a separate post for the other books with a small review and information post on each coming up soon. It certainly is going to take a lot of soaking up to do with such a great personality. What surprises me is that the books and the contents Dale Carnegie has written are so simple and life like that if one was to try and really get the best out of them you only have to read them at ease, soak in all that he has to say, imbibe the culture and the habits that he would like you to follow and you can be assured you will be a changed man.  Till then you can browse this Widget for more of Dale Carnegie's Best Sellers

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I hope you will like this first post of mine dedicated to my Hero and Idol. Your valuable comments, inputs and suggestions will be highly appreciated.

Dale Breckenridge Carnegie

 Dale Breckenridge Carnegie

 
 
Before I proceed to post a Biography about Dale Breckenridge Carnegie and a review of his books, hereafter referred to simply as Dale Carnegie,  I would like to quote a few lines, a part of which appear in his Best selling Book “How To Stop Worrying and Start Living”, which changed the very course of my thinking and way to living life.
 
I will speak more about this book later, but for now the famous lines I quote unfortunately whose writer is anonymous. The other reason that prompts me to take up this Writer, Lecturer, and phenomenal personality as my premiere post on this Blog is the fact the wonderful Institution Dale Carnegie Training runs its Centennial Year in 2012. They have had a phenomenal performance from 1912 – 2012, about which I will say later. 
 
This is even more reason for me to select this Author/Writer legend as my Premiere Post on this Blog is my own personal experience which I will quickly mention below. 
 
My Personal Experience: Before I conclude I would like to put in a few words of my own experience with one of his best books - "How to Stop Worrying and Start Living" . As it is rightly put up - Learn how to break the worry habit -- Now and forever! -  A few years ago (Well a few decades ago ) during my college days, I was going through a lot of stress, mainly due to getting used to the new atmosphere, challenges, and hectic schedule of my College education.
 
Time was short, I was going through a rough patch both on family fronts as well as financially, and add to it the pressure of performance at studies. That is when a Friend presented me this wonderful book as a Birthday present! Something drew me to the book like a Magnet. As I had a liking for reading I took up the book and soaked every bit of it into myself like a sponge would to water. I even made small notes of the quotes that appear on the pages in between each chapter, and carried it in a small pocket diary like a reference!Believe me that book changed my life and the very way I had to look at life and be successful.
 
I could keep writing about this experience, but would suffice to say it still remains as my "Bible" for success and I have continued the legacy of gifting this Book to anyone who is due for one on a Birthday! It has remained in my life my biggest and best Birthday Gift! 
 
I can only say that you need to read this book to believe what I have to say!Here are those wonderful lines which keep motivating me always! For some reason these lines for me have become synonymous with Dale Carnegie.

 When things go wrong!

“When things go wrong as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill.

When the funds are low and the debts are high.
And you want to smile but you have to sigh.

When care is pressing you down a bit.
Rest if you must but never quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns.

And many a failure turns about.
When he might have won if he'd stuck it out.

Stick to your task though the pace seems slow.
You may succeed with one more blow.

Success is failure turned inside out.
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt.

And you never can tell how close you are.
It may be near when it seems far,

so stick to the fight when you are hardest hit.
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit."

~Annonymous

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 Biography of Dale Carnegie

It is truly one small tribute to this great multi-faceted personality Dale Carnegie who I am writing my tribute to him. I am too small in stature and it is with great humility that I take this task of writing a review and my humble opinions about him and his works.

Dale Breckenridge Carnegie (originally Carnagey until 1922 and possibly somewhat later) (November 24, 1888 – November 1, 1955) was an American writer, lecturer, and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking, and interpersonal skills.Dale Carnegie was born in 1888 in Maryville, Missouri, Carnegie was a poor farmer's boy, the second son of James William Carnagey (b. Indiana, February 1852 – living 1910) and wife Amanda Elizabeth Harbison (b. Missouri, February 1858 – living 1910).
A Simple Profile Widget for Dale Carnegie would look like this Courtesy - From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia)

 Name :Dale Breckenridge Carnegie
Born: November 24, 1888 - Maryville, Missouri
Died : November 1, 1955 (aged 66) - Forest Hills, New York 
Primary Occupation: Writer, lecturer 

Notable work(s) : "How to Win Friends and Influence People", "How to Stop Worrying and Stop Living", besides other of his best works.
Spouse(s) : Lolita Baucaire (1927–1937) , Dorothy Price Vanderpool (1944–1955)
Children : Donna Dale Carnegie 
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A complete Biography in detail can be read at 
  Dale Carnegie

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 Dale Carnegie was not only a Writer, Lecturer, Facilitator, and a man of influence but he also created an Institution Dale Carnegie Training which is today a Knowledge Centre of repute and unparalleled excellence.

 “Founded in 1912, Dale Carnegie Training has evolved from one man's belief in the power of self-improvement to a performance-based training company with offices worldwide. We focus on giving people in business the opportunity to sharpen their skills and improve their performance in order to build positive, steady, and profitable results.”

Dale Carnegie Course in Effective Speaking and Human Relations is learn-by-doing based program for individuals based on Dale Carnegie's teachings. It was founded in 1912 and is represented in more than 80 countries. More than 8 million people have completed Dale Carnegie Training.

It is indeed a great tribute as a Centenary year for this wonderful institution. 
You can connect with the institute socially and
Catch up with this great Knowledge center at https://twitter.com/DaleCarnegie

You can get them on Youtube at - www.youtube.com/user/pal8583

Not the least to also follow them on Facebook at - https://www.facebook.com/DaleCarnegieTraining


(Note: Please note that besides my own views and inputs all information has been collected from various sources From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, and other references available on the www for information only. Due credit goes to all these sources for their invaluable inputs.)

Much can be said and written about this fantastic personality who we will all miss, however the Dale Carnegie Training Institution will surely carry the Heritage forward.

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